Teenage Pregnancy Resources: Legal Rights, Telling Your Parents, and More
An unintended pregnancy can bring the world to a halt, especially as a teenager. Suddenly, you have to ask a lot of serious questions about your future.
Where can I go to get help and support? What are my rights as a pregnant teen? Which pregnancy option is right for me?
We understand how overwhelming all of this can feel, but you’re not alone. Options Clinic is here to answer your questions and support you from your first pregnancy test to your final decision and beyond. Keep reading to learn more.
How Do I Know If I'm Pregnant?
If you think you might be pregnant, the first thing to do is take a pregnancy test and receive an ultrasound.
But what if you can’t afford a pregnancy test right now? What if you want to be as discreet as possible? Options Clinic provides free pregnancy tests and free ultrasounds, so you can confirm your pregnancy in a compassionate, confidential environment. You are welcome to bring a parent or friend, or come alone—whatever makes your experience more comfortable for you.
Do I Need My Parents’ Permission for an Abortion in Montana?
If you are 16 years old or younger, Montana law requires that a parent or legal guardian be notified about your abortion. However, exceptions can be made if you are emancipated from your parents[1].
You may feel your parents deserve to know you’re pregnant or want their help as you navigate the decision process. If you feel safe to do so, you may want to tell them once you’ve confirmed your pregnancy at Options Clinic.
How Do I Tell My Parents That I’m Pregnant?
We get it—telling your parents that you’re pregnant can be one of the most nerve-wracking moments of your life. It can be hard enough to process your own feelings, let alone put them into words. Below are some tips to help you get started:
Consider Your Options. While you don’t have to make a decision right here and now, it’s wise to start thinking about which pregnancy option would be best for your future. Need a safe, nonjudgmental place to explore your options? Consider visiting Options Clinic. Our team of professionals is here to answer all of your questions regarding abortion, adoption, and parenting.
Confide in Someone You Trust. If you’re unsure of what to say, confide in someone you trust first. They may be able to help you process your thoughts and feelings and put them into words. You could even practice the conversation with them to calm your nerves.
Be Direct. When it comes time to share the news, get right to the point. Delaying the nature of the conversation may cause tension and make each of you feel more anxious. You can be as straightforward as: “This is hard for me to admit, but I’m pregnant.”
Your parents will probably have questions. They may want to know how long you’ve been pregnant or who the father is. These questions can seem accusatory, but they likely come from a place of concern for you. Remember, they’re hearing shocking news for the first time, so try to answer as calmly as possible and allow them time to process. If you feel your parents are open to knowing more about how you feel about your pregnancy, share with them the pregnancy options you are considering.
If you’re concerned that either of your parents may react violently to the news, don’t hesitate to reach out for help. The staff at Options Clinic are here to listen and will help you get to safety if you’re facing abuse at home.
Teenage Pregnancy Resources in Helena, MT
Finding out that you’re pregnant as a teenager can be scary, but there are people and resources available to help you. Options Clinic provides free teenage pregnancy resources, so you can get the confidential care you need to make an informed and empowered decision.
Call us at (406) 422-1011 or request your appointment online today. All services are free and confidential.
Sources
Parental Consent for Abortion Act. Montana Legislature. (n.d.). Retrieved from https://leg.mt.gov/bills/2013/hb0599/HB0521_x.pdf